Need! Advice for Lock Care

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Hello,

I've been locking my hair for 1+ years and been educating myself with how to maintain my hair and speaking to hair stylist who deal with natural hair clients. I have been refered this n that to put in my hair n what not to use etc.. It's been really crazy because I'm tired of people saying one thing then another, I just would like to know what to use in my hair to make it grow naturally? I don;t want chemicals in my hair I want to keep it in its natural state, just what oils to use for my scalp? and what I CAN USE TO LOCK MY HAIR? at the moment I'm using natural oils and I noticied that its good for my scalp but my locks aren't looking locked and neat its bushy still... I dunno I'm tired of  this really but I really would like to keep my locks. I've waited literally my whole life to start this. Now that I have it started I can't stop so why not keep it n deal wit it.

 

Please help a sista out..

 

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i'm sure you've noticed that the site is a bit of a mess but i and others will do our best to answer when and where we can.

myth 1. locking aint easy.

actually it is.  sometimes our "firsts" are very difficult.  whether it be the first time we learned how to ride a bike, skate, do a cartwheel, jump rope...jump two ropes, if you can think back, it seemed a lot more difficult.  locks are exactly the same way.

because there are 1000 and 1 ways to answer your questions, you're going to get conflicting advice...some worse than others but for the most part, all suggestions will be somewhat, if not completely true.  you'll know who to listen to by using common sense.  so let's try a bit of that out....

myth 2. don't wash your hair for "x" weeks/months/until your locked

common sense would say, that's stupid....and it is.  what if you work out every day and sweat a lot?  what if you work in a restaurant and your hair constantly smells like fish grease?  what if you have severe dandruff?  if you didn't have locks you would wash your hair right?  well, the same goes for locks so people who tell you that you can't be clean, are wrong.

you can wash your hair when you want as long as you're willing to do the work thereafter.  if you started with two-strands/braids, there won't be much "work."  in fact, with both styles you can wash and go.  your hair may be frizzy but that can easily be solved by palm-rolling/twisting.  so wash when you want, twist, set, go.

if you start with palms or comb-coils, you may find shampooing a lot more difficult.  because water does cause them to unravel.  what this means is, you're going to need more frequent visits to the salon to palm-roll/maintain your hair.  if you're maintaing them at home, be prepared that some of the palms will come undone...eventually, they will lock and the rate at which they unravel will decrease with time.

myth 3: use "x" product

i can't speak on every product line.  all i can say is that i've been using naani's naturals products which are available at http://shopgrandmaskitchen.com and will soon be available at this website.

i prefer butters to oils when it comes to locks.  locks tend to soak up oils and oils sit atop your hair and scalp.  butters are better because you can use them for twisting as with naani's naturals lock'd down butter, you can use them to grease your scalp as with the elixir hair growth scalp dressing and if you heat set, they can add tremendous sheen.  i prefer to let my hair air dry when i use a butter or to use a lower heat setting to keep from excessively activating the oils in the product.

for twisting, i like an aloe based product such as naani's naturals twist and lock creme (TnL).  the aloe is moisturizing, it offers a great hold and keeps frizzies at bay.  where i'm not really good at washing and going (i'm a fruzzy...check out the article in the blogs section), when i do wash and go, i will literally take a handful of the naani TnL creme, put on my forward facing locks and do a quick twist of each..  I pull my locks back, use a couple of locks to tie/secure them away from my face and allow to dry.  my hair doesn't look salon perfect but it's a quick fix that allows me to clean my hair and keep my hair from looking unkempt without having to twist for hours on end.  so...

beginner shampoo: naani's naturals sulfate free

beginner conditioner: gunk-be gone herbal vinegar rinse - use every 4-6 weeks.  for new locks and shorter hair, you can stretch it out because there's less hair to soak up the product.

beginner twisting: twist and lock creme.  if your locks have set up a bit, you should try TnL and/or lock'd down dreadlocks butter.

beginner scalp: elixir hair growth scalp dressing.  good for growth.  doesn't encourage flaking/dandruff.  doesn't build up on scalp.  use every 7-10 days as a SCALP dressing to encourage growth and promote a healthy scalp.

if you have any more specific questions, start a new forum topic or add on to this one.  good luck!

 

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i believe victor started with combs.  this is week 4 shampoo and week 10 twist respectively.

week 4 post shampooweek 10 - after twisting

and the big reveal...

victor's mature dreadlocks

hopefully these photos demo to you that after you shampoo your hair, your new locks can look a hot mess (especially when you start with combs/palm-rolls).  it will appear as if they've come undone completely.  don't panic.  1. it's just a hair style.  2. all hair styles need to be maintained on some level.   3. start twisting and don't let it discourage you from shampooing.  they're supposed to come undone (especially when you have combs, palms) and they're bound to be frizzy.

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Don't give up. There is no magic product IMHO. You just have to find what works for you. I've been locked for nearly 10 years now and it's been my experience that what works well for some, may not work so great for others. Just find you a great shampoo, leave-in water based conditioner, oils, and a satin bonnet or scarf, and STICK with those products once you've found something that works. F.Y.I....it took me a while to find products I reallllllly love after years of trial and error..lol.

I stick with simple products like organic extra virgin coconut oil (rarely I might put a few drops of rosemary oil in this), wonder 8 oil (I alternate between this and the coconut oil), Giovanni organic deep moisture shampoo and conditioner....and really that's all I use consistantly. I also take a multivitamin along with EFA and biotin.

My locks took about a year and a half to lock, it varies from person to person. I avoided beeswax and products that contained mineral oil and petroleum (had bad experiences with them making my hair dull and being hard to wash). You really don't need anything to MAKE them lock...just patience, good hygiene, and time. Often I would retwist my roots after washing with just water or wonder 8 oil.

Also, I find that my hair grows best when I'm eating healthy and taking care of my body.

Good luck and I hope this helps. Enjoy all the stages, you may miss this stage one day. :0) Be blessed in the Lord and much love.

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nocturne1980 offered some sound advice but i want to add a bit more info.  having been locked myself for a decade in april...yay! and 5 years prior to that going natural in adulthood, not to mention having cared for many natural/lock'd heads of hair, i hope i can offer a bit of clarity....


There is no magic product IMHO. You just have to find what works for you. I've been locked for nearly 10 years now and it's been my experience that what works well for some, may not work so great for others. Just find you a great shampoo, leave-in water based conditioner, oils...


actually there is.  i think the best people to listen to are those who have dermatitis (in some form) or those who suffer from conditions such as eczema in adulthood.  reason being, these are generally dry skin conditions and MOST folks with ethnic hair types, whether the hair is in good condition or bad, we all tend to suffer from dryness in some form.  so by paying attention to what those on the fringes are doing, we have a better idea of what to do when you're somewhere in the middle.

any old shampoo won't do.  most OTC shampoos are designed to strip oils from your hair.  reason being, naturally straight hair gets oilier faster than type 4-5 hair.  think about it, what's the first thing you want to do after a shampoo and condition?  add oil!  so you're adding what your shampoo just stripped away and it removed every ounce of oil on purpose!  the shampoo is manfactured for type 1-2 hair and that ain't you!  wouldn't it be better to use a shampoo that cleanses but doesn't strip?  in the end, it'll reduce your need for oils and seal in moisture.

sulfate-free and lauryl sulfate shampoos are best but they're hard to find OTC.  these are mild shampoos that won't strip your hair...leaving it dry and exposed.  within a month of switching to naani's naturals sulfate-free shampoo, my dermatitis went bye bye and i haven't had any problems with it since 2003.  so i'm a big advocate of these types of shampoos for those of you suffer from dry scalp, scratch and/or grease your scalp. 

on a side note...for some reason, in "African" communities throughout the world, we've come to believe that greasing and scratching our scalps is normal.  in reality, this is a sign that your scalp is unhealthy...or worse, that you're allergic to something you're using on your hair.  you shouldn't be doing this.  i offer these suggestions therefore, not to sell you on natural products but to change a mindset that makes us believe that our traditions are "normal."  there's nothing normal about caked dandruff or having to add vats of oil/grease to your hair and scalp.  but i've digressed...

oils are a toss up.  oils, for those of us with dermatitis or dry skin/scalp, is an expensive, ineffective idea.  they seemingly work but there's a better option.  it's the difference between using baby oil and vaseline on your skin.  now the baby oil will do it's job but for some of us, we'll be ashen in a few hours.  so how do you get the effects of vaseline without the greasiness? 

use natural butters.  natural butters seal in moisture and unlike most OTC oils which are best used to add sheen to loose hair that is heat/chemically processed, they lasts longer.  unlike vaseline, they integrate with our skin's natural chemistry better and are less greasy. 

OTC oils are cheaper but for most of us, we end up using them because they smell good and they're cheap.  if you choose a product based on ease, price and smell good, you're selling yourself short.  if you're applying an oil more than once a week, it's not working.  for some reason, most of us don't get that so we just apply more of the product that isn't working. it's madness!

lesson:   the butter is more expensive, but does its job and works longer.  in the end, the cheap comes out expensive.  so use your money and time wisely.

leave-ins are bad for locks.  it's a pretty good practice to avoid using leave-ins when you have locks.  if you're going to condition, deep condition.  leave-ins are designed to leave stuff in and that can cause problems for some people in the long-run.  plus there are better alternatives to leave-ins.


I stick with simple products like organic extra virgin coconut oil (rarely I might put a few drops of rosemary oil in this)


coconut is a light oil that is best for normal-oily hair, skin and scalp.  if you have suffer from dryness, it's best to use a oils that has more....weight to it.   coconut isn't one of them. 

olive is for extremely dry skin for example...but over doing it with olive can lead to flaking.  sesame is great for oily hair and scalp.  jojoba oil works wonders on normal-dry skin. but jojoba isn't an oil you want to use "neat."  like olive, you can get too much of a good thing and decrease the oil's effectiveness because it may end up resolving problem a, while creating problem b.

this is why MOST of the oils you buy OTC are a combination of oils.  when you're making your own concoctions at home, know what you're using and why.  in the end, it's not as if your hair is going to fall out if you're getting it all wrong BUT, you can inhibit growth, you can encourage dryness, oilyness, flakes, etc... 

in the end, you should be striving for "normal."  normal means, your hair and scalp don't NEED anything beyond cleansing and the occassional deep condition.  anything you add/remove thereafter is just normal styling stuff...gel to hold, oils to add more sheen, etc, etc...

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